Saturday, November 28, 2015

Cape Fear Botanical Garden, Fayetteville NC

Today we decided to visit the Botanical Garden in Fayetteville.  Unfortunately we only saw a fraction of it because my scooter started making some terrible screeching, grinding noises!  The motor is self-contained so there is no way for us to see inside, but it sounded as though some sand or gravel got inside of it somehow.  Maybe it is just ready to be retired...we think it's about 13 years old as its the very first one I got.  We might just be needing to buy a new one shortly.

We found this to be a quite accessible venue with both both paved and gravel paths, just wish we could have seen more of it!  Spring would be fabulous here with much more in bloom.

However, we took a lot of nice photos, so enjoy!


Parsley used as groundcover!

Great raised planter with salad greens, etc.

Not sure what kind of berries these were?

Red lantana

Variegated lantana

Snapdragons

Giant prickly pear cactus

Decorative cabbage

Cool metal frog sculpture holding a lantern (Wilson would have loved this!)


Plus they have a great gift shop!

Dickens Holiday - Fayetteville, NC

We are spending a few days in Fayetteville, NC to enjoy the warmer temps...70s during the day and 40s at night.  We are out of motels and back into our rig, which is really nice and a whole lot cheaper.

Last night we went to the Dickens Holiday fete in downtown Fayetteville.  It is the kickoff to their Christmas season and the lighting of their lights up and down the Main Street.


This was a pretty church we saw coming into town.

Pansies are blooming here!

Everyone got a candle to hold...

There was a parade down the Main Street with bagpipes, a horse drawn carriage and people dressed up as Dickens characters.

There were throngs of people; at some point their was a countdown from 10 to one, and everybody held their candles up...

...and on one the lights came on and the fireworks began!

Steve saw this sign as we were making our way back to our car...

Monday, November 23, 2015

Catastrophe Averted!

After spending a second day in Alexandria, VA to rest my back, provision up and do laundry we set off toward 95S again today.  We did too many miles on Saturday which resulted in too much sitting for me.

Not six miles into our trip today and we experienced our first breakdown of sorts...we hit a bump in the road and we lost the cotter pin and bolt that attaches the trailer hitch to the back of the RV.  Steve looked up at the backup camera and said, "we lost the car." Luckily there are some safety cables that run from the car to the RV bumper so we didn't actually lose the car, and there was an immediate breakdown area we could pull right over into.  We have Good Sam's Roadside Assistance, so we dialed them right up!


Nice construction area we could immediately pull into!



Then Steve noticed some damage to the hood of our car...from the bolt flying back and hitting it?


After waiting for two and a half hours for GS Roadside Assistance to not find someone to come out to help us, we Googled closest auto parts store and it was .6 miles away, so Steve locked me into the rig and drove there with the car. He was back and had us all fixed up in about 40 minute, with extra parts in case this ever happens again.


So we only drove 130 miles today, but averted what could have been a catastrophe! Staying at a Comfort Inn in Petersburg, VA. Temps will be in the high 20s tonight.  

Saturday, November 21, 2015

Traveling with a Disability

Out of the Days Inn by 10; our destination today is the Quality Inn & Suites in Alexandria, VA.  The nighttime temps are still hovering around 30 degrees F, so it's a motel again tonight.  This time I booked it directly last night and got a better rate, a better room and the ability to cancel by 6 if needed. I also joined for free the Choice Hotel's 'Choice Privileges Program' where you can earn free rooms.  I wish I had done this earlier in the trip because we had a bunch of hotel stays that would have counted!

Gas in Bordentown, NJ is $1.89 full-serve!  We saw these solar panels all over town...CT is way behind the times for utilizing solar energy!



Our route today is I-95S to the Delaware Memorial Bridge then exit 1A onto Rt 896S which turns into Rt 301S/50 to 95/495 around Washington, DC then 95S to Alexandria, VA


This is the Delaware Memorial Bridge that crosses the Delaware River.



(I don't know why this is all of a sudden blue but I am too tired to figure it out!)
This is the The Bay Bridge over The Chesapeake River, and what I find interesting is that they offer escorts to drive your car over it because so many people are afraid with the edge of the bridge seemingly right over the water!

I have been neglecting to talk about accessibility in the hotel  rooms we have been staying in!  I always ask when making a reservation if they have HA rooms, and sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. Depending on how I am feeling I might pay the higher rate for an accessible room or not. I have a small bath seat in the shower in our rig that Steve can easily bring into a hotel room so I can shower if there isn't one there already.  Depending on the lip into the room and the size of the room, I will definitely bring my walker into the room and maybe my scooter. If I don't need the scooter we leave it in the back of the car.

We bring our own food because of my dietary restrictions, and all of the rooms so far have had a refrigerator and a microwave! We look for hotels with free continental breakfasts so Steve always visits that for himself and to round out my breakfast.

As far as finding pet-friendly hotels, we had our tiny dog certified as an emotional support dog for me so we can take her anywhere for free. She is trained to use puppy pads as well as going outside, and she has her own portable stairs to use to get up on the bed!

Back to me, for those who don't already know, I have MS, bursitis in my legs and now degenerating disc disease among some other health issues.

Firstly, I wear a seaband on each wrist which is a Velcro band with an embedded plastic bead which you place on the inside of your wrist over a certain pressure point that drastically decreases motion sickness. We originally got these for a long ferry ride and I love them.  They allow me to write this blog, do things on my phone and read my Kindle all while traveling.

I sit on a foam neck support to protect my lady-parts which have another problem, and I use a back-hugger pillow behind my back.  I wear really comfortable clothing all the time, which include stretchy loose knit pants, sort of like sweats.  All my sweatshirts have to zip all the way up and down for easy layering, in fact I am starting to purge my wardrobe of pullovers.  I wear shearling slippers which are easy on and off, and my seat in the rig is as far back as it can go so I can put my feet up on the dash for my bursitis.  This presses my back firmly into the back pillow.

Whenever we stop for anything I take the opportunity to get up, go down the steps of our rig which has extra hand rails and take my walker outside to walk around the parking lot.  I search out swimming pools and recumbent exercise bikes like a fiend! The more I can move the better!

Lastly, let us not forget the personal chef who accompanies me wherever I go, and doubles as a husband!

Friday, November 20, 2015

Our Grand Adventure Begins!

We were finally able to check out of the Quality Inn in Groton, CT after I took care of some medical issues over the last few days.  Departed at 10am and our destination today is the Days Inn in Bordentown, NJ.  We are facing some chilly nights so we will be moteling it for a bit.  The prices will be jacked up because of the Thanksgiving holiday coming up, but our Packrat can't be delivered to Hendersonville until the Mon. or Tues. after Thanksgiving so we are traveling south to try to hit some warmer weather in the meantime.

Our route today: I-95S to the Tappan Zee Bridge in NY, 287W to the Garden State Parkway to NJ, then onto the NJ Tpke, then back onto I-95S.


For any readers not familiar with this area of the country, this is the Tappen Zee Bridge which crosses the Hudson River just over the border from CT into NY.  (I apologize for the bird poop on the window!)

We arrived at our motel at 3pm after traveling 202 miles.  We learned an important lesson today!  Last night we decided on a destination town approx. 200 miles away, which is how we settled on Bordentown, NJ.  I did a Google search for motels, and the Days Inn seemed to fit our needs so I wrote down what I thought was their direct line.  When I called them from the road today, it seemed as though I was talking to a more generalized booking agent. Turns out I was talking to Expedia!  The room rate was quite a bit higher than I anticipated and there were no cancellations since I was booking the day of.  I took the room, but now will be much more vigilant about making reservations, perhaps calling the night before from the hotel room where I can hear better and make a more informed choice. Normally we wouldn't worry about reservations, but being Thanksgiving week, it seems prudent.

This motel has an exercise room so we are off so I can use their recumbent bike!


Sunday, November 15, 2015

Goodbye House

  Interesting shadows on the house!

We downsized to this house in 2010 and totally rehabbed it to make it more accessible for me using some of the principles of Universal Design.  It was a long haul but we finally finished it, only to realize that not only do we hate CT winters but we really can't afford CT's high cost of living (the highest in the country, I think.)

We loved the pool and the solar shower that Steve put in...I think that's what I will miss the most!


A shot from last summer.


This is the solar shower enclosure that Steve built.


Rear view of the house...the top level is the apartment we rented out.


My favorite tree!


The garage and breezeway entry...on the right side of the garage you can see the ramp Steve built for me.


1-800-PACKRAT

Movers? Pod? Packrat? So many choices!

My friend Madelaine recently moved to Florida and used Packrat which is a vendor for Lowes.  She had a good experience, so I called and was pleased with their price....basically $2500 for their 16 foot long-distance unit which includes the use of the pod for one month, transportation to NC, and climate-controlled storage. Done!

Today it arrived!
                                               


We had some rain and discovered a leak in the roof but the Packrat guy came right out and patched it both inside and out!



Almost full!  Steve did a tremendous job packing this thing and it turned out to be just the right size!  

Everything in our house either got sold (3 yard sales plus several FB sites), packed in this storage pod, packed in the RV, donated, thrown out or given away for free to family or even complete strangers.  We found giving away things to people in need to be the most gratifying.  Whew!  A bit more cleaning in the house tomorrow and we are done! Tonight we sleep in the RV in the driveway!

  
  

Monday, November 9, 2015

For Sale By Owner!

As some might already know, we decided awhile ago that we (and my mom) are ready to leave the climate, taxes and general cost of living in Connecticut and strike out for a new place to call home.  We chose Hendersonville, NC, a lovely little town outside of Ashville in the foothills of the Great Smokey Mountains. The plan was to tough out another winter here and put the house on the market in the spring.

During our third yard sale of the year in September, on a whim we put out a For Sale By Owner sign just to see if we got any nibbles.  Wouldn't you know, we showed it to two couples on the Monday after our sale and had a full-price cash offer on Tuesday!!!!  Miracles really can happen!

They asked us when we wanted to close and we arbitrarily said how about in 60 days, so our closing is on November 16th!

Our plan is to hang out in CT long enough to tie up any loose ends and then head to Hendersonville.  We have picked out a lovely over-55 mobile home community with an in-ground pool called Halfway Tree so that is where we will go first.  We will view any units they have available and if there is nothing to our liking, we will hit the open road and full-time it until something else opens up there.  Let the adventure of a lifetime begin!